What to Do If My Boyfriend Wants to Drink My Urine?

Navigating the complexities of sexual health and relationships can be challenging, especially for young adults who are just beginning to explore these aspects of life.

The 2bois brand has reached a partnership agreement with the LoveMatters sex education website to provide you with exclusive sexual health content, which is not limited to men's health alone.

This collection of Q&A addresses some common concerns and questions that many may find themselves pondering. 

Q:

I'm 18 years old and have been masturbating for many years. Now, I feel like my penis is a bit short, and it's not very hard when I'm erect. I'm worried about my future life.

A:

Many men worry about their penis size, but studies show that most sizes fall within the normal range. Erection hardness can be influenced by psychological factors and health conditions. If these issues continue to bother you, it's advisable to consult a professional doctor for specific advice. In sexual relationships, mutual cooperation and communication are more important, and women often care more about foreplay, caressing, and attention to the clitoris.

Q:

I'm a girl, and I often feel the urge during my period. I know I can't have sex with my husband then. Is there any way to relieve it?

A:

There's really no absolute rule against it; it depends on whether you're willing to take the risk. So, you can have sex during your period as long as both parties agree and maintain good hygiene. However, the risk of infection might be higher, so extra attention to hygiene is necessary. If you're not comfortable having sex during your period, you can relieve the urge through masturbation.

Q:

When I'm erect, the glans is fully exposed, but when I'm soft, the foreskin covers it completely. Do I need circumcision, or can I just retract the foreskin when soft?

A:

Based on your description, circumcision is generally not necessary. However, foreskin issues vary from person to person, so it's advisable to consult a professional doctor for personalized advice to ensure your health.

Q:

Today, I opened my tablet and found deleted photos of my daughter filming herself while touching her private parts. She's only nine years old. What should I do?

A:

You can have an age-appropriate conversation with your daughter, explaining that touching her body is normal, but it's a private behavior. Educate her about body privacy and self-protection, and provide suitable resources or books.

Q:

Hello, editor! I know what your public account focuses on, and you've been doing a great job. I came here today to ask a few questions and hope you can answer them. I would be very grateful!

My girlfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship. The last time we met was on the 2nd of last month, and we stayed together for 8 days, having sex twice every night. On the last night, we didn't use protection because we felt both of us weren't in a good state.

My girlfriend's last menstrual cycle came about 7 days early, usually around 28 days. She eats slightly spicy food, but this month her period, which should have arrived on the 28th, is now four days late, and we had sex again last night. I'm wondering, given this situation, how likely is it that she's pregnant?

Or how many days can a period be delayed on average? There are various opinions online. If she is pregnant, what can be done to minimize harm to her body? I have some understanding of these topics and know the responsibility of my actions. We're both students, so I hope you can give some advice. Thank you.

A:

Hello, thank you for your trust. Ovulation periods are not always regular, so any unprotected sex can lead to pregnancy. There are many reasons for a delayed period, and the only reliable way to determine pregnancy is to use an early pregnancy test, which usually gives results about a week after a missed period.

Q:

Hey, my boyfriend loves drinking my urine and also enjoys foot play. Foot play is fine, but is drinking my urine harmful?

A:

Drinking urine can be harmful because it is a waste product of the body and may contain bacteria and other harmful substances. It's advisable to avoid this behavior to protect your health.

Q:

Hello, I'm a new follower and have a question for you. My boyfriend and I always use condoms during sex, but I'm unsure if I need to thoroughly clean the lubricant left inside my vagina afterward.

I always wash my vulva clean and gently clean the inside with my finger and water. However, I've read online that frequent internal cleaning can disrupt the natural flora. So, I'm conflicted. Should I clean the inside after using condoms?

A:

Dear, the inside of the vagina does not need cleaning because it has a self-cleaning mechanism. Excessive cleaning can actually lead to flora imbalance and increase the risk of infection. Just keep the vulva clean. Using condoms from reputable brands is safe, so there's no need to worry excessively.